This week was a week of firsts for us. The first gymnastics class of the year, the first dance class of the year, the first time Maggie rode her pony, the first time Maggie rode her little push car, the first week of my moms' group, the first time I'm trying to sew from a Japanese pattern book. Lots of firsts.
Have I mentioned how much I love groups made especially for moms? I do. I love them. I have been involved in quite a few now and I have to say, they are necessary.
The social aspect is great, but beyond that, it is always refreshing to be challenged by others to become better. To become introspective and consider your value as a mother, the impact your actions (not just you words) have on your children, and to consider how your spiritual life impacts it all. I've listened to many, many great speakers over the past 4 years and I have to say, I've taken a little bit away from all of them. I read books and blogs but there is just something refreshing about listening to someone speak about motherhood and life and then have an opportunity to talk about it with friends. When else can you have a deep discussion with friends without children interrupting?!
I was reminded today that my group was first started by 5 moms who were struggling through motherhood and just needed each other for support. From their decision to meet weekly grew a great group full of encouragement and mentorship that is now blessing over 30 women within just a matter of years. That is just beautiful. Perhaps you are lacking a supportive, encouraging environment in some aspect of your life. Have you stopped to imagine what might happen if you started something? Perhaps there are other people in your same boat that need a little support and encouragement. Everything starts somewhere. Get together with a few neighborhood moms to discuss life and motherhood and challenge each other to grow. Find yourself a mentor, someone who has gone before you and has words of wisdom to share. Search out your own group. You won't regret it.
Do you have a support system? How have you found ways to challenge yourself or find encouragement in your parenting?
For another first for me, come back next week for my first giveaway. It's a good one. Really good. I'm very excited. You'll want to win this! Have a great weekend!
